- Word of Wisdom For The Girls. Episode 6

:::RELATIONSHIP ADVICE 4 SINGLE
LADIES:::


:::HOUSE CHORES BEFORE
MARRIAGE:::
:::FROM DR. HESPEY:::

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STOP ACTING LIKE HIS WIFE WHEN
YOU ARE ACTUALLY YET TO BE.
•••

Some ladies think that acting like
a wife will automatically persuade the guy
to put the ring on their finger.
That is faulty thinking and could
lead you into big
emotional problems.
Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger,
you are NOT, I repeat, not, his
wife. You go everywhere
together, hold hands, kiss in
public, he introduces you to his
friends as ‘MY WIFE’, all that is NONSENSE until he puts a legal
ring on your finger.
You are dating him, that doesn’t
give him the right to demand
wife duties from you.
DATING and MARRIAGE are two different things.
Even if he is ENGAGED to you,
that doesn’t give him the right
to demand wife duties from
you.
Some men demand that you cook for them organize their
apartment and give them sex to
prove that you are a good wife
material.
Don’t you fall for that crap.
Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you.
And, DON’T move in with him
because that will automatically
make you his ‘IN-HOUSE-MISTR
ESS’ who will perform all his
wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage.
You don’t have to submit
yourself to him until he puts
that ring on your finger.
Some men demand that you
should submit to them because you are dating.
If he wants you to submit to
him when you are dating, just
think of what he would do to
you if you are married to him.
Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will
get it back.
If you give him your money
because he is a
‘potential husband’, you can kiss
that money goodbye because you may never see it again.
Stop giving him your body like a
whore.
Anytime he wants sex, he calls
you up, yet he hasn’t put the
ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter
productive.
Your objective is to get married
to him, not to warm his bed.
Pretending to be his wife by
giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger.
It is not complex: if he wants
you to perform wife duties for
him like cooking, organizing his
life, sex and all other wife
duties, tell him to take you to his family and organise a marriage.
Stop being foolish.
If he really loves you as he
whispers in your ears, he should
take you to the alter or marriage
registry. If he gets all the wife duties
from you for free, why on earth
do you think that he will make
you his wife?
If he is not ready to make a life
commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits.
Protect yourself from emotional
and sexual abuse.
Stop giving this man what he
doesn’t deserve.
If he is not willing to honour you by putting that ring on
your finger, then he is not
worthy to receive wife benefits
from you.
When you become his wife,
then he will get treated like a husband.
Play safe my dear sister and
understand MEN!!!



Many are CRAP!!!