5 Tips for Healthy and Loving Relationship

Romantic relationships, in all of their complexity, are a fundamental component of our lives. And as the poet Rainer Maria Rilke mused, “There is scarcely anything more difficult than to love one another.”
What makes a good relationship? Holly Parker, a clinical psychologist and instructor of the course The Psychology of Close Relationships, offers her advice on how to have healthy and loving romantic relationships.

1. See the best in your partner and the relationship

Research on perception and attention shows that we see more of what we look for, so if you’re looking for signs of kindness, that’s more likely to stand out to you. How you think about and interpret your partner’s actions, intentions, and words also affects how you feel and understand a situation with them, which in turn affects how you behave toward them.
Put it into practice: Spend a week looking for anything and everything your partner does “right.” You can even jot down anything you notice for each day if you choose.

2. Have fun

Couples who engage in exciting and enjoyable activities together have greater relationship satisfaction from before to after the shared activity. As several studies have shown, couples who play together stay together.
Put it into practice: Choose an activity with your partner that you’ve never done together before that you would both find engaging and fun, such as taking dancing lessons, staying the night at a new town and exploring it, or indoor skydiving. You can also try something with your partner that he or she enjoys that you’ve never done before.
What else is related to long-term passionate love? Sexual intimacy, shared affection, and happiness in life.

3. Have good sex

Increasing research is pointing to a great sex life as predicting better relationship satisfaction—but not the other way around. One such study published in the Journal of Family Psychology examined data from hundreds of couples to determine the relationships among sexual satisfaction, marital quality, and marital instability at midlife.

4. Be grateful for your partner

Studies on appreciation in romantic relationships show that expressing gratitude to your partner predicts an increase in your relationship satisfaction. The gratitude you feel inside also predicts your partner’s level of satisfaction. Feeling appreciated by your partner seems to increase how much you appreciate him or her in return—which positively affects how much you feel committed to the relationship and want to do things to meet your partner’s needs.
Put it into practice: Spend time saying “thank you” and letting your partner know how much you truly value him or her. Also, remember to increase the gratitude you actually feel toward your partner, because this also makes a big difference. Reflect on why you appreciate having your partner in your life or what you would miss most if he or she were not in your life.

5. Have a good relationship with yourself

The relationship you have with yourself is arguably the foundation on which your other relationships are built, and studies are supporting this notion. High self-esteem predicts better relationship satisfaction, and high self-esteem of both partners is an even better predictor of strong relationship satisfaction. Moreover, people with high self-esteem appear to respond more constructively and positively during conflict when they think their partner is committed to the relationship, whereas people with low self-esteem don’t do this even when they believe their partner is committed.
Put it into practice: Like most things, increasing the quality of your relationship can take time. Begin from a place that you can believe. It’s okay if right now you have a hard time believing that you’re a worthwhile person. You don’t have to tell yourself that yet if you don’t believe it. Start by identifying at least one thing you like about yourself or one thing you’re good at doing. Then, look for other things from that starting point. Remember, more of what you look for tends to pop out, so look for not only what your partner does right, but what you do right.

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9 Signs He's Cheating on you

Here are some red flags that may signal that your significant other is cheating.

When you get suspicious that your significant other is cheating, be careful not to appear to be paranoid. You have to walk a fine line — you don't want to make false accusations.

So, while I'm sharing this list of cheating red flags, I concede that it's a tricky situation. It's hard to be sure if someone's cheating, but protect yourself: Be vigilant, and pay attention to your mind and spirit within the relationship. But, at the same time, be careful not to let anxiety lead the way because unnecessary paranoia will just drive your lover away.

Here are some red flags that may signal that your significant other is cheating:

1. Less Sex

Unless he's Superman, he can only have so much sex. So, if he's getting it from another source, you might notice. Whether it's another woman or a porn addiction — even if he's not cheating — a decrease in sex signals serious issues in the relationship.

2. Jumpy Cell Phone Habits

In a perfect world, we'd be open about sharing our correspondence with our significant others. Most of the time, we trust that we don't have to worry about who is texting or calling them. But, if you notice that he is getting protective and/or nervous when he gets calls or texts, it may be cause for alarm.

3. Gushing or Talking About Someone Suddenly

You know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about him. One of my exes began talking about a guy a lot near the end of our relationship — he just always seemed to be at her social gatherings that I didn't happen to attend. Sure enough, after she dumped me, she began dating him.

4. Disconnect

Even though relationships ebb and flow naturally, if you're sensing that he's drawing away from you, then there may be someone else. Emotional disconnect should be investigated regardless of whether it's caused by cheating. There's a problem if he's not laughing or seeming as passionate as usual. It's hard to spread love/passion between two people, so the person who used to have it will feel it slipping away if it's being given to someone else.

5. He's Pulling Houdinis

 

If he's disappearing, traveling, or unavailable to the point where you are starting to wonder, then he could be cheating. Also, these times tend to take on a pattern because it's tough to synch up schedules, especially in secret.

6. Friends Acting Strange

His friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what's going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.

7. Caught in Other Lies About Other Things

If you catch him in a lie, your trust will naturally be damaged. Don't hold a grudge — forgiveness is a good thing. You can forgive, but don't forget. If he consistently breaches your trust, it's establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: If he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don't let him talk his way back in.

8. Been There, Done That

I always say: "Once a cheater, always a cheater." If he's done it before, he's definitely capable of doing it again. It has nothing to do with you, which is why you can't say that he cheated on his previous lover because she didn't keep him happy. Cheating is a self-serving act in which the cheater doesn't take his significant other into consideration. If someone is upfront with you that he's made mistakes in the past, maybe give them a chance — but make it a long probationary period before you let your guard down.

9. Your Gut Tells You So

Don't ignore your sixth sense. People are gifted at sensing when something doesn't feel right. Whether there are red flags in your relationship that are clueing you in or not, if something feels off, don't ignore this feeling. Usually that feeling is right, and something intangible may have led to you figuring it all out.

Do you have any red flags that you'd add to this list? Would you say that you're generally good at figuring cheaters out, or do you seem to find yourself getting cheated on often? What sorts of behaviors do you think are characteristic of someone who could be a cheater?

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10 Relationship Tips That Couples Often Forget

    Once a couple of people have settled into a relationship, things can fall into a bit of a rut. Routines form, the attentiveness that was present at the beginning of the courtship might be replaced by content complacency, and ultimately tensions arise. These simple tips may seem like common sense, but you may be surprised at how often people forget about their importance.

Communication is Vital

Very few of us are able to read one another’s minds, so it’s important to express things that weigh on us, whether they’re positive or negative. Little behaviors that bother us can become more irksome over time, so it’s good to address them early, before the irritation accumulates to the point of anger. Similarly, miscommunications can lead to some pretty ugly arguments, so if you’re uncertain about something, try to discuss it calmly so you can sort things out: you may have misheard or misread something your partner said/did and taken it totally out of context, so clarify before freaking out about anything. Even though we may feel that we know our partners well after being with them for several years, remember that we all grow and change over time, and methods of communication must change along with us as needed.

Never Take Each Other for Granted

Be aware of every wonderful thing that your partner does for you, and express your gratitude whenever possible. This might be as simple as thanking them for doing the dishes after you’ve eaten dinner, or telling them how much it means to you that they make your coffee/tea exactly the way you like it. They’ll feel appreciated for the love and kindness they show you, and will express their appreciation to you in turn, so no one ever feels like their actions aren’t being acknowledged.

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Respect Each Other’s Alone Time

Togetherness is important, but just as important (if not more so) is the ability to spend time alone. Too much time spent together can make you irritable, especially if you feel like your personal space is always being invaded. Time alone is necessary for personal reflection, growth, meditation, or even just quiet contemplation. Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder, and you’ll appreciate your partner a lot more after having some space away from them. If you live together, it might be a good idea to have personal spaces that you can retreat to: either individual offices, or a garage workshop for one person and an attic library for another, etc.

Don’t “Let Yourself Go”

It’s inevitable that once certain comfort levels have been reached and closeness wins out over early awkwardness, some behavioral patterns will change. You might not spend an hour prepping before dinner to make sure that your hair is perfect, or your partner might wear the same pants for two days in a row without worrying about what you might think of their outfit. That’s totally normal, and really quite hilarious. That said, closer comfort levels don’t mean that you should neglect your personal hygiene, or let your living space fall into complete ruin. You know they’re not going to judge you if you leave pizza boxes all over the floor, but that doesn’t mean that you should. Try to keep things tidy and your appearance a step or two above “slovenly,” and your partner will undoubtedly feel that they’re worth making an effort for.

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Share Some Hobbies, and Have Solo Pursuits as Well

You might not share your partner’s love of MMORPGs, and they may not be interested in your love of foreign films, and you know what? That’s absolutely okay. While it’s great to pursue some hobbies and interests together, it’s important to have your own social groups and interests as well. Take cooking classes or swing dance lessons together, hook up with friends to go to wine tasting nights, but then split off for your individual pursuits: you’ll have fun things to talk about when you meet up afterwards.

Admit When You’re Wrong (or When They’re Right)

This may be difficult for some people to do, but it really is important. If you discover that you’ve been wrong about an issue/bit of information/whatnot, own up to it: you’ll gain your partner’s appreciation and respect if you do, and if you don’t, you’re just proving yourself to be an immature, pouty jerk. Additionally, if you’ve been discussing something and your partner turns out to be in the right, acknowledge that fact: they may have been filled with self-doubt, and acknowledging their awareness or knowledge may boost their self-esteem exponentially.

Have Faith In Your Partner

Having trust and faith in another person can be difficult, especially if you’ve been hurt by others in the past. If you’ve been cheated on or otherwise betrayed by another partner, you might worry that the same thing will happen in your current relationship, and this may cause you to imagine things or accuse your partner without just cause. If you find that your own insecurities are poisoning your partnership, talk it out with them and consider seeking therapy: they’re not the person who hurt you, so please don’t assume that just because one person treated you badly, everyone else will too.

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Leave the Past In the Past

If you work through a hardship together and come to a positive resolution, move past it and use the experience as an opportunity to learn and grow. Don’t refer back to it during arguments, don’t bring it up as a means of guilt-tripping your partner, and try not to assume that just because something happened once, that it’ll happen again. What’s passed is past, and rehashing old ugliness will just poison future happiness. Let it go.

Mutual Goals are Important

It’s great to have a goal or a project that you’re both working on together, as that can affect many aspects of your life outside of your actual relationship. You could be working on an art piece, saving up for a trip, building a cottage, or even working on a garden. Determine your strengths for the project so you’re working in harmony, and build something amazing that you can be proud of having achieved as a team.

Be Honest

Some people lie to their partners for years out of fear of hurting or offending them, but that can lead to a whole lot of ugliness on all sides. The one being lied to will know that something is wrong, and the one lying may feel more and more frustration about holding back and the relationship may end up suffering badly as a result. This honesty doesn’t have to deal with outright lies, but rather personal interests or preferences that may have changed over the years. Alternately, there could be some serious issues that really should be dealt with, but are internalized out of fear of hurting the other person. Ultimately, honesty really is the best policy, and a strong couple will be able to work through just about anything together.

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2 Good Signs He Doesn't Love You Anymore,if you keep experiencing it,He doesn't love you

No guy can call himself a boyfriend if he does nothing when he knows that something is bothering his girl.

Hugging a girl when she looks sad and rubbing her shoulders when she is down should be a boyfriend's instincts. If your guy doesn't do any of that and turns a blind eye even when you are feeling blue, it can be a sign that he doesn't love you with the same intensity that he did before

1. He Starts Comparing You to Other Girls:

A guy should never say something to a girl that makes her feel less beautiful, less talented, or less of a woman than someone else. The slightest hints of comparisons made between you and any other girl should be a warning sign.

Comparing your behaviour, looks, or any other aspect of personality with another woman suggests a deep-rooted resentment driving a sense of frustration. Here are some examples of how a guy's cruel words may mean that he is falling out of love with his girl:

Why can't you dress like her?

She carries such a lot of confidence when she speaks, why can't you do the same?

Maybe you should learn a thing or two about style from her.

You are such a jealous girlfriend, why can't you be like my best friend's girl? She is always relaxed and calm.

If your guy does this once, let him know that you will not tolerate being compared to another girl. Ask him how he would feel if you compared him with another guy. And if he still continues to do so, it may be a sign that he doesn't love you the same way he used to.

2. Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Demanding Space in the Relationship:

Your boyfriend really shouldn't be asking for more space in your relationship if there have not been any changes in the way either of you behave. His demands to be left alone could be because he doesn't enjoy being with you the same way that he did before.

Calmly ask your guy why he wants more space. If he says something specific, deal with it and get it over with. But if he says something vague and has no clear reasons why he suddenly wants you to take a step back, his love for you may be fizzling out.

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3 Things you need to stop doing in your relationship,this 3 Things kills relationship without looking back

1. Lack of trust

This is totally different from infidelity; when your partner cannot vouch for you in a relationship, then it is bad. You should be able to predict to an extent the things your partner can do and the places he or she would visit. This is the foundation of most relationships, if the foundation is faulty or shaky, the relationship you have built will definitely break.

2. Immaturity A relationship whereby a party resorts to being childish when problems spring up can never work out. Some people do not know how to handle certain situations and they end up messing it up the more. A partner who starts to call his or her partner all sorts of names when they fight lacks is not a mature person. Name calling is bad for anyone and it would kill that relationship before you know it; ‘Miss know it all’, ‘I too know’ and ‘Mr. perfect’ are names you should never call your partner.

3. Lack of communication

While your partner may constantly frustrate your effort when you try to reach out to her, you should never stop talking. The moment there is a break in communication that relationship is as good as over. Talk, talk and keep talking; do not hold back when it is time to relate with your partner. Many relationships have broken as a result of lack of communication

NOTE: Misplaced priorities

This is another thing that could kill a relationship; many people do not know what to do at the right time. In relationships, you should learn to set your priorities right. Some would rather invest their time in pressing phones when they ought to spend quality time with their partners. When your partner starts to feel like he is not so important in your life, the relationship is heading for the rocks.

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These 5 Things you shouldn't do when asking a girl out ''Toasting a girl''

The issue of men asking ladies out has always been in practice since the very beginning; men often find means of making women fall for them by coming up with sweet lines or by doing something to impress them. We would also not overrule the fact that some women could be intimidating and could throw some of the men off-balance. Some men simply falter because they do not know how to react to some women’s responses and end up looking funny.
1. The way they dress
Some guys do dress funnily and could be likened to clowns; they look rough and unkempt in ways that could turn off responsible women. Some sag their trousers to the knee level and wear torn jeans also. To complete the style of dressing, they have bandanas tied on their heads and also have one arm of their shirt rolled up with the other arm down. Now tell me, what exactly are they? Touts? No responsible woman would trip for men like that in this century when they are not on the set for some old-school movie. If the women laugh in this case, you really cannot blame them. The guys would also have to laugh if they have to see their own reflection.
2. Stuttering Some men approach women with rehearsed lines they picked up from their friends who have skills in doing things like that. Now we know what could happen when you are on stage for a play, you could end up missing your lines or forgetting them completely. When this happens, most of the guys do not know where to start from as they might have said the wrong thing from their crammed lines. If the women they are trying to ask outfall within the category of the intelligent ones who are usually tough, they may make it harder for them and embarrass them the more.
3. Telling lies when the women know better
Another way men embarrass themselves in front of women is by lying. Why do they need to lie in the first place? A woman that would like you will do irrespective of the things you say, but when men overdo it, it becomes a turn off. Some women go out of their ways to let the men realize they know what is going on and embarrass them in the process.

4. When they set out to impress the women
Most guys do all they can to make the women see them in a different light by being over-zealous in their dressing. Some women would never say yes to men who approach them with bling-bling and chains; the only time they could be swayed is when the chains on them are made of pure gold and not the iron they always seem to have around them. As a matter of fact, how many men do we see in the corporate world dressed like that? These could be funny to the women and could make them lash out on the men.
5. Acting immature
Some men get embarrassed when women school them due to the immature behaviour they put up. They either go out of line or do things one would not expect from any man. Some women watch out for men like these and end up lashing them with words. Also, some men do not know when to keep quiet or let things go, they would rather exchange words with the women until the women down grade them

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5 Characteristics of a Good Relationship,If your partner can`t do this 5 things,you don`t have good relationship

A good relationship is a romantic partnership,” What this means is that two people are able to be partners in life and the tasks and undertakings that life presents to them. They can work together on projects, share same or similar goals, complement each other in accomplishing things that need to be done and take into account their abilities.
1. You Care About Each Other
“One person caring about another represents life’s greatest value,” which pretty much defines a good, healthy relationship.
“In a good relationship there is genuine caring and concern about the other’s well being and joy in their life,” . “You want your partner to feel good and happy as much as is realistic and possible. This is important to both partners in regards to each other.
2. By understanding the characteristics, we are better equipped to build new, healthy relationships and strengthen the ones we have.
Respect.
Support and Trust.
Honesty and Openness.
Shared Responsibility.
Integrity and Compromise.
3. Treat each other with respect.
Feel secure and comfortable.
Are not violent with each other
4. The Communication is Amazing
Both partners are able to speak freely about their feelings, thoughts and opinions, and feel incredibly supported when doing so.

“You can talk about anything and everything and be listened to, hopefully understood and, when needed, comforted,” “It is very important to feel that your partner has your back and your best interests at heart.”
This is especially true during rough patches, as well as the “good” times in a relationship. Repressing feelings will only cause conflict later on so making sure you know how to talk to your partner is one of the most important characteristics of a good relationship.
5. You Like Each Other
“All we need is love,” but sometimes we just need to simply like someone, too.
“It is important not only that you love your partner but that you like them as a human being,”
“If possible it’s good to admire and respect him or her. This brings a great energy to the connection and often solidifies the bond.” This means that, even if you weren’t together, you would still think your partner is pretty awesome. They make you laugh, they make you want to be a better person, and they’re just super fun to be around because they’re that amazing.

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Ladies,If you catch your lover cheating on you,Don`t do this 3 things,I beg you

Don't torture or embarrass yourself making the same mistakes millions of women make when they know their man is cheating. Save your self-respect, dignity, and time by cutting your losses and freeing yourself for a better relationship with a more functional man.
1. The Investigation When women suspect their man is cheating, the first mistake they make is launching a fact finding mission. Spying, calling around, interrigating their partners, women invest their energy in a senseless hunt to prove what is already obvious: the relationship is seriously broken.
2. Blaming the Other Woman
Yeah, she's got to be pure evil to steal another woman's man, but that's really not the point. She's not the one who committed to you, who promised to to be true to you, and then cheated on you. Even more importantly, if it wasn't her it would be someone else. People cheat because they are cheaters. When a man cheats it's not because he was innocently seduced by another woman's wicked charms. It's not because she offered something you didn't. It's not because she's better than you. Cheaters cheat. They don't need temptation to have an affair. Let go of your anger towards the other woman. It's misguided. Focus instead on the fact that the partner you were in a relationship with violated his commitment to monogomy. If it wasn't her, he'd have found someone else. Even if she leaves the picture, there are millions of women in the world for him to cheat with. 

3. Changing to Keep Him 

First of all,LISTEN IN DATING, if your man is cheating, the last thing you want is to keep him around. Cheating is a pattern of behavior that won't stop no matter how many promises he makes or how many changes you make to keep his attention. If he has cheated on you, it's time to move on. Cheaters cheat... and cheat... and cheat.

Second, you didn't drive him to cheat. If your man is cheating, it's not a reflection of your worth, but an indication that he is incapable of handling the responsibility of maintaining a relationship. He is lacking mature adult coping skills. The problem is his, NOT YOURS.

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Guys: Any Girl that has this 5 Qualities, Bro Love her for Real,She's Wife Material

A good woman may be hard to find, but they do exist. If you find a woman with the
following qualities never let her go because
she is the right one for you, who can change your life for good:
1. SHE FREQUENTLY DOES LITTLE THINGS FOR AND BECAUSE OF YOU: it’s important for men to consistently be romantic and
caring towards their women always, not just in the beginning of the relationship. You may be taken for granted for your giving behavior but the woman who values
your love is the right one. If she is willing to go the extra mile and do small things for you out of love without any expectations, it’s a great sign that she’s a keeper.
2. THE ONE WHO IS SMARTER THAN YOU: a guy or a man to say, needs a woman who is smart enough to set things right in his
disorganized life. She can make your life meaningful and help keep you from bad decisions. They are right when they say that behind every successful man there is a strong woman.
3. THE ONE WHO MAKES YOU WANT TO BE
BETTER: when Ms. Right walks into your life you may start paying more attention to
it, you want to do better and excel in every
field. Suddenly you start paying attention to your looks. She ignites the fire within you to do something big. She 'll want to hold on to
you and do wonders in your life.

4. THE ONE WHO IS KIND AND NURTURING: a kind woman is a good woman. Anyone who is not kind is not worth it. Being a nurturer is an excellent quality. If you want to have children, or
if you already do, look for a mate who also wants children.
5. THE ONE WHO LOVES YOU: last
but not the least, the basic essential
of a happy life is a loving partner.
The one who will care for you and respect those who are important to you and all your good wishes will
always make you proud. If your girl is completely in love with you, the good point is, don’t ever take her for granted. Let her know you love her too.

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10 Ways you can stop your lover for cheating,if you can do number 1,5,9 and 10,They`ll never cheat on you

Cheating in relationships is rampant. We can assume most partners will cheat at some point in a committed relationship. Why? I’m going to answer that question a number of ways, and then teach you how to guard against it happening.
1. Be willing to initiate s*`x.
2. Be open to experimentation.
3. Don't over-accomodate.
4. Don't become too controlling.
5. Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him.
6. Let him have time to himself.
7. Be aware of your emotions.
8. Prioritize your relationship.
9. Try to be good in be*d

10. Be ready to do romantic things, be a good kisser and always leave good memory with your partner all the time. Do romantic things that will get her thinking and smiling, i swear nobody will touch your design food.
Please couples listen,Now you know he is a cheat; the next thing is for you to find out why he is cheating on you. Are you denying him something; or is he just insatiable? Are his friends responsible for this? Could you tell if he had always been like that – may be you knew but decided to manage him, hoping you will change him? Is he trying to get your attention; or is he drowning in the much you are providing? Or worst still is he just a perpetual cheat…an uncommitted brute? Whatever; when you find out why, stop everything you are doing that had encouraged or is encouraging his habit.

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3 Things Men of this days Will Always Find Attractive In Women,Men abi na lie

1. Wide hips 

Wide hips are a se`xually dimorphic trait. During puberty, women’s hipbones widen to facilitate childbirth. Hips don’t lie—wide hips in a woman are a strong signifier to men that she’s a mature adult who’s very much capable of reproduction. (She can push out little critters with ease.) Since we men are all about putting our seed in fertile ground, it’s not uncommon to see us fawning over Iggy Azalea and her ilk’s “parted like the Red Sea” hips.

2. Big, full, and red lips

Big, full, and red lips are a strong sign of good genetic quality. Full lips are often a sign that your jaws have grown correctly without misalignment—a very good indicator of genetic health. It’s no coincidence that people who have a perfect teeth and a perfect bite often also have full lips. But what of the redness? Lipstick doesn’t exist in nature, so why would men find red lipstick attractive? When women apply red lipstick they’re unknowingly mimicking a big sign of arousal in primates. Upon arousal in female primates blood rushes to their lips, creating a red sheen. Naturally, male apes are going to want to get with someone who’s putting her willingness on display. This is no less true in Homo sapiens. Red lips are universally attractive because they signal arousal and willingness to engage in secx. So ladies, perhaps you should be a bit more careful with what you smear on your lips if you don’t want to look like you’re actively looking to get a piping.

3. Slim wai!sts
This one goes hand-in-hand with the wide hi!ps. Estrogen, the female hormone, dictates fat storage in women. High estrogen levels in the female body often mean that fat will congregate around the breasts, the h`ips, and as`s—NOT the stomach. So when men see a woman with a bit of a gut—she’s telling us “My estrogen levels are not very high”—men love high estrogen, so she’s not going to be a big hit with the lads.
It’s simple—if you have a big belly, we’re not going to find you as attractive as we would if you had a slim waist. DUH. Testosterone, the male hormone, dictates fat storage on the stomach. That’s why you don’t see many women with beer guts.

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18 WAYS TO KEEP THE GIRL YOU ARE DATING: SHE WILL KEEP LOVING YOU FOR REAL

Do you love your girl and you don't want another man to snatch her from you? Then do the following things:
1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her attention, she will not seek for attention elsewhere. Chat with her online via social media or else another man will.
2. Give her listening ears whenever she is speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone or reading a newspaper when your girl is talking to you.
3. Do not promise her and fail. Do not promise her what you cannot do. It is better for you to say you don't have than to promise and fail.
4. Do not be stingy. Avoid telling her that you don't have, you don't have all the time.
5. Be caring. To be caring does not only mean you should be giving her money. There are many ways of showing care; e.g show concern whenever she is sad or in problems; be by her side when she is in problems, do not abandon her in her days of sorrow.
6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful.
7. Tell her daily that you love her.
8. Play with her and joke with her daily.
9. Don't be too hard and don't be too soft. Scold her a little, and pet her a little. Do not over pet or over scold.

10. Love her siblings, and respect her parents.
11. Appreciate her when she helps you to do something.
12. Allow her to advise you, seek her suggestions and respect her opinions.
13. Respect her.
14. Do not take her for granted.
15. Do not cheat on her.
16. Play with her hairs
17. ki'ss her on her forehead, cheek and neck. It will pass a good message to her.
18. Let her sit on your lap sometimes.

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4 THINGS GIRLS KEEP AWAY FROM MEN, EVERY WOMAN DOES NUMBER 3 AND 4

Girls have their tricky ways to get the attention of any
men they like. they use different style to get noticed without cheapening themselves.
1. Girls Spend a Lot of Time Looking in the Mirror:
Girls pay attention to how they look more than guys. If guys spend only couple times a day to look themselves in the mirror, girls spend as often as possible to look themselves in the mirror for many reasons; reapplying makeup, quick adjustment or just to check their selves out.
2. Girls Spend Most of Their Time Thinking About Guys:
Yes, sure you know that girls are obsessed with guys. There is a poll that shown about the percentage of it. Girls spend 60% of the time to dedicate it to guys, 15% of the time to think about specific guy, and 20% of the time to think about guys in general.
3. Girls Enjoy Being Kis`sed in Front of Their Friends:
Well, it doesn’t mean a full-on make out session. Just a quick peck on the lips will make it nice and not awkward. Girls like show to their friends about their lovely relationship by showing it off just to make them jealous.

4. Girls Tell Their Best Friend Everything:
Girls like to share many things with their besties. Including a secret that you might believe her to keep. Girls like to gossip, that is might be a bad news for you guys who thought that your secret was safe with them. They like to share literally everything with their best friend because it seems like special bond between each other.

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SEE 3 REASONS WHY GUYS GOES BACK TO THEIR EX GIRLFRIENDS

Sometimes, we realize what we’ve lost and are ready to be whatever we need to be to get it back. Of all of the reasons a man might reappear,this is the most rare. Sometimes, without us really realizing, a woman can carve out perfectly round a little space in our hearts and lives. We leave her, thinking she’ll be the only one who experiences any loss, but, really, we lose too.
1. HE MISSES YOU: This might sound so sweet, but it is definitely not a good reason to jump in bed with him. It is normal to miss someone and it is part of the grieving and recovery process of getting over an ex. If you end up having s*x with them again, the process begins all over again.
2. YOU ARE AVAILABLE: Well, it’s obvious that the ex is always available and if anyone is looking for a quick lay, the ex is the first point of call. The ideal thing to do is to prevent compromising situations such as spending private moments with them, having more drinks than you can take or answering their late night calls.

3. YOU ARE FAMILIAR: The fact that you know them so well and you have absolutely no reason whatsoever to impress them, figure out the things they like or go ballistic with their se`xual fantasies makes it easier to have uncomplicated s*`x with your ex. These things hold true for both of you as being with a familiar body you know in and out is appealing even though you have it at the back of your mind that it won’t last. Having s*x with your ex will surely not make you get over them, neither will it help you start a fresh relationship

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See 5 Ways to make a girl understands you truly love her so much

1. Let Her Feel Pampered
Women are easy to please. I know, it’s not often we think that way but it’s true and, trust me, I’ve learned the hard way.
Here are few simple ways for men to help keep their partners happy and their relationships on course.
1.Be Sweet
When talking to her, use words like, 'my darling', 'my love', 'sweetheart', 'my lover', 'babe', 'honey' or 'sweetie'. Don't just use those words when everything is going great.
2. Don't Check Out Other Women
When you are with HER, give her your full attention. Don't let another woman entering the room, take your attention off of her. A woman wants to feel that she is the focus of your attention. If you are checking out or watching other women, this will make her feel that you are constantly on the
look out for someone better. If you give her ALL of your attention, she will feel secure in the relationship and love you more.
3. Praise Her
Tell her how much you appreciate her for the LITTLE things she does for you. If you are not used to this, it will take some honest effort to put her feelings ahead of yours and recognize just how much she does for you.
For example, you might say "Thanks for listening sweetie, I love how you always stop what you are doing and ask me how my day was." This is REALLY going to strengthen your relationship.
4. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams
5. Be a 'Giver' not a 'Taker'
I know there are some of you men out there that are saying to yourselves "She's going to walk all over me if I do these kinds of things for her." Just let me say, that the kind of men who think this way, are usually 'takers' and not 'givers'. But, I'm telling you right now men, if you have a good woman by your side and want to keep her, you're going to have to become a  'giver'. If you love someone, truly love them, you will do whatever you can to keep them by your side and loving you back.

SOME women out there that will not love you and appreciate you, no matter what you do for them. But you are NOT with that woman, or you wouldn't be reading this article to learn about some simple little things to keep your woman in love with you. You already have a good woman by your side and you want to keep her. Trust me, a good woman will not only think you are the greatest thing since sliced bread when you become a giver, she will respond to your love one hundred fold!!! That's
why there is more happiness in giving! You're going to get back that much . . and MORE!
Try it you will be amazed!

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